WHs do come back--Piecing--acceptance & time

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Quick hijack....
JksD, I am so glad to be inspired to be able to provide divine help in your time of need.
I pray for you every day and look to be here for you when you are at a place to come back frequently....that and so I can get an update on the inverted moves that you are working on.

Ghost!
So glad you made it over here.
Read,
Re read
and read some more.
You and I have much work to do, and there is knowledge here that you need....
So the work can begin and stay consistent.

qt, my friend....
focus off of taking her back or not.
You are much to early in the process to continue to think on this..
much work still to do on yourself.
IMHO, we each need to put in the work and time, before we earn the "right" to take them back or not....
this is not to say that you can do what you choose, but trust me, I see many a LBS here, that rushed to toss the WAS/WS out, only to regret it later.
Lets focus on what you know is right to put in the work, then ponder on where you are at for taking her back or now....
assuming the option is an option at such point.
Sorry for the 2x4, my friend, but we will get you into the right place yet....
I sense you are so close to being there, so please read the info here about your emotions, and then your responses to temper your feelings....
Great power comes in this discipline my friend.
Great power indeed.

I will share more in the next day or two.
There is still much to discuss, if you agree Blu.
It is your thread, and as much as you say we can have it, I still prefer to ensure the convo is of benefit for you.....

“Gracious acceptance is an art - an art which most never bother to cultivate. We think that we have to learn how to give, but we forget about accepting things, which can be much harder than giving.... Accepting another person's gift is allowing him to express his feelings for you.” Alexander McCall Smith