So not this last Saturday but the one prior I agreed to meet with my spouse to talk about the divorce process. I had been holding out for a long time saying that I would not help him in any way and that I wouldn't meet with him to discuss it. I finally caved and said that I would meet and immediately he was nice to me. Before this he always acted as if he was super angry with me whenever he spoke to me or was around me. He said how he was sorry for all of the pain of this and our relationship and that this is hard for him too. But he thinks that in the long run all three of us will be better off. I just told him I would trust his decision and discuss the matter with him. We met last Tuesday and absolutely nothing has been figured out. He said he filled out his paperwork but didn't bring it with him to our meeting. He also just asked me what I wanted in regards to our property. He seriously had nothing figured out and really didn't suggest anything. I was kind and happy and I really made sure that he did the talking not me. I just listened for the most part. He brought up twice how we aren't good for each other and I just agreed with him... I was trying to go with a bit of reverse psychology on him there and to give him no ammo. And then I would quickly redirect the conversation back to talking about a divorce. Anyways...I don't know if I'm just reading into things...I probably am. But he just called the house which he really never does and wanted to talk to our daughter. When I answered the phone he asked me what I was doing and how things were going. Is that a potential bit of progress or am I just grasping for straws? He never calls and never calls just to visit with our daughter. If he had it his way the little bit that we do communicate would be done completely via text message.
Me: 27 H: 27 Married: 3 years H left May 2016 Daughter: 3 years old