Hey c, I think your last post is spot on. You're handling things well. Upbeat, but casual and with no expectations. Perfect.
Dr. Joy Browne frequently referred to just acting 'cheerful and stupid' in different situations. This is such good advice. Just be happy, and oblivious to inconsistencies about him talking like you are together when you're not, or if he says something one day and doesn't follow through the next, none of that registers. You're just happy and don't see an issue. Perfect.
PS- I wish others would post on your thread. I didn't really get why until I realized you haven't been posting much on others' threads. Usually when you post replies to other people they'll read up on you and some will start following you. I'm sick of hearing my own voice but wanted to give you a shout out!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15