H filed for divorce - is it too late?

[csabo]

H mentioned the house was looking really nice and that maybe we could have company over, and I said I was thinking of throwing myself a birthday party at the end of next month, and he got kinda excited and said we could do a Halloween party and that he would help me move around some of the heavier things to clean the house up even more for it.

This could be a good opportunity to spend time with him and let him see me being fun and happy and social.