I remember making him a cup of tea once and erupted that I put the milk in the cup first. It led to a violent rage and throwing the cup. He made a confident woman turn into a nervous wreck.
But ... But ... That's the "right" way to make a proper cuppa.
Cherry - I know I'm imposing on you but we have a new member Zanadoo to our little family. A young lady who used to be what she describes as a "firecracker" and now describes herself as a "mouse". I've suggested she come over here for a visit but if you don't mind doing a quick flyby you might make a great difference for a troubled and lost young lady who I think could use a friend other than the kindly grandfather type like me.