I am in the process of writing the letter, but like both of you have stated, there is no point in sending it, as it will just fuel the flames. If she were being more logical and rational, these things would not be happening. I am not worried about it going into the court records, as there is nothing disparaging (it would actually make her look bad), but again, there is no point. Just since this last post she sent me another nasty and demanding e-mail. It is like kicking someone while he is down and it never stops. I do not understand it. She keeps getting meaner and just when I think it isn't possible for her to come up with more, she does.

As far as GAL, that is something I do not understand. I am still supporting her and have nothing left after paying her, as I still have debts from the divorce. I also have nothing for my future, as she literally got everything. I am also battling depression, which never occurred before the split. It goes up and down, but I really do not know what to do with my life.


Me 52
ExW 45
D1 26
S1 22
S2 18
D2 17

M-17
T-18

Divorce final-10/09/15