Tell me what to do!!!

[Cadet]

What do I do?

Start to DB

Is it too late?

NO

Should I just file?

NO

I live in our house should I leave?

NO

Should I get something else to drive?

Sorry not sure why you are asking this

I'm so confused.

Perfectly Natural, it will get better as time goes by.

My general advice would be to reread my homework thread
DETACH and STFU

If he wants a divorce let him do the work.

Protect yourself financially.
Do whatever you need to do for this to happen.

Have you ever heard of AA?
Al Anon for spouses of alcoholics.
Look into attending that.

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