It only took a day or so for the high to fade. W did say she thought all feelings were gone until she came back to my house and realize the feelings are still there. And after that there really hasn't been any contact to just go back to doing what I do to let her contact me if that's what she wants.
As for staying at the oM house. He works away and so he isn't there for weeks at a time. And as far as I know she is actively looking for her own place. I will not make excuses for her because I agree if it was as bad and over as she said she would be out of there and staying somewhere else.
The rules you set out Sandi are pretty much exactly what I have planned if it ever gets to that point. And I myself have an app for blood tests too. ( had a alcohol fuelled night). So for my own peace of mind I want the test. Also if she were to fight back I have it right there to show her.
A lot of this is so much easier said than done. So my goal right now is to be pleasant yet unavailable to her as she has no right to use me as she sees fit. It [censored] to go back to being like that as we have been pleasantly getting along before the day she came over.
Since then tho she called me Monday night to talk about nothing really and the boys Tuesday morning and chatted with me a bit. Said she would call that night again and never did. I don't want to be a friend. And from what I understamd( with a grain of salt) is she saw the loss when she spent the weekend.
Here is to one day at a time again... Thank you all
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
