Sorry CLD, I'm going to have to call you out on this one.
After all the years of being on here and other MLC forums, I have NEVER seen such a quick reversal of attitudes from the WAS. A couple of reasons why:
1) You were required to have supervised visits with your kids. By law, the WAS wouldn't just let you have them as easily as that. Plus, I've never seen a WAS be as giving and calm as you claim yours suddenly is.
2) When you first came, you were very emotional and even lashing out at those who disagreed with you. And now that you say there was this quick reversal of fortune, there is not the same intensity of emotion.
3) You continue to say that it was "her" mistake and that "she" was wrong, etc. Yet you still take no responsibility in your sitch and have refused to elaborate on your story when others have asked.
You know, there is no shame in your situation not changing or what you do not working. I believe any other forum you've joined will tell you there is no magic bullet. Accept that and work on it.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
