for those who are unfamiliar with my sitch, I'll give a brief update
W and I continue to "date" but W is reluctant to call it this. She said she just wants to spend soem time together to see how she feels. This was after nearly 10 months of separation.
She says she wants to meet up, but doesn't really seem committed and is reluctant to make plans. However she keeps on doing it - I'm trying to ensure I'm not being pushy (v hard) and even suggests family things to do.
W had a major "breakdown" around 3 weeks ago (see last thread) and came round crying etc. She really opened up then, and putting things together really has confirmed for me she is in MLC.
I want to make sure I'm doing the right things, since she really did not like my DBing (in terms of NC and showing her what a D would look like) but so far does not seem to show the committment I'd need to be confident we could work it out.
Thoughts?
M 10, T 18 M: 36, W: 35, D: 8, S: 6 EA: Oct 12 ILYBINILWY: Jan 15 BD: Aug 15 Separated: Sep 15 Miss you: Jun 16 Aug 16: Dating (!) Oct 16: Selfishness returns... currently: disgusted
