Tell me what to do!!!

[Zanadoo]

As for the divorce I don't understand why he is taking so long. I know that he can just go file in our state but he hasn't and I don't understand why. That is my big question. In our state he doesn't need me to agree he can just go do it but yet he hasn't. And he is insistent upon we do it together. I don't understand this. I don't know if he is just lazy or what. Also, is my husband a walk a way spouse or is this a Mid Life Crisis? How do I approach this? In regards to the 180 we haven't really been talking...should I initial conversation or just basically accept that its done and move on with my life?