Thanks for checking in M. Of course you are struggling, trying to figure it all out, and find it hard to believe he really really wants a divorce.

There's really no way to know the truth of why and how and when, because these MLC and WA folk make their own version of the past, which helps them to rationalize leaving their loving spouse. And in the long run, whether his reasons are valid or big fat made-up lies, they are HIS reality.

You sound better, not so depressed. Are you still going to the al-anon meetings? What are you doing for fun? Do you guys have any kids?

Linda

Me 65, Ex 64
M 38 y
2 adult S, 4 G-Kids
MLC 11/07
BD 12/09
D 3/14
Dating nice guy 7/14
Engaged to nice guy 12/17