Quote: She might be interpreting your silence as proof of that belief. So I don't see that any harm could come from you sending her an email, stating how sorry you are for shoving the stuff under the door.
Actually, I did start to do that. The next time we spoke over the weekend I told her that I actually wanted her to yell at me about my behavior. I did a bonehead thing, it was PA, and it was wrong. Rather than walk on eggshells around her I wanted her to let me have it.
She was bit surprised by that...but still pretty PO'ed...and she said that she didn't think we should speak for several days. I think that will just allow her to stew and get more angry, but it also might make her cool off.
So that's the reason I'm not initiating contact. She said that she would call me when she felt ready. She set a boundary and I'm respecting that wish. (Going back to being the respecting good guy after falling off the horse.)
BTW...it's her B-Day today...and it took everything in my power not to leave the card I got for her at her car or door. I want to stick to her boundary without excuses.
"The journey of a thousand miles begins with one step." – Lao Tzu
