Thank you for the kind words qt4x11.
I am just trying to turn a lemon into a lemonade :-)

Originally Posted By: qt4x11


But I think the idea of the divorce for her - was that she would be free to love other people without feeling trapped.

How do you know that she wants to be free to love other people without being trapped? Do you have any evidence of her actively looking for other men? I don't know your wife, but the mother of my kids clearly told our kids that she doesn't want another man and that she loves me after I told the kids that I didn't want another woman and that I will always love mommy.


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How can you say this with such certainty?

Because a little bit of love stays forever and since she loves your kids who are 50% of your genes, she automatically loves you as well.

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I've also looked into 'MGTOW'. A lot of what it says about divorce for men seems absolutely true to me. I never would have given that type of philosophy much thought before I went through D - but it all makes sense now.

I am glad you did, MGTOW exposes the feminist movement gaining ground here in the US and destroying families. It shows how more and more beta males are being raised by single moms every year, and how the same beta males are ruining alpha males and contributing to the destruction of families.
The time has come for alpha males to stand up to the feminist movement in order to return to a situation where both males and females understand the importance of each other.