So, another piece of information I believe I forgot to mention previously... towards the end of July there was a night H and I had both been drinking a little bit and we had sex. The next day he said it was good, but that he lacked an emotional connection, so it was like "another nail in the coffin" for him. But after that he was still showing signs of affection/mixed signals so I'm not sure what to think, I guess. My guy friend said the physical parts die later than the emotional parts and that he doesn't think H will change his mind.


Me: 29, H:28
Together 9 years, married 7
No kids
BD/ILYBNILWY: July 9th, 2016