Cherry.Papers filed "am I making a mistake".focus!

[Cherry]

Grl, thank you. I do feel over the past few weeks I've become stronger. I think it happened when I learnt he had filed, and I truly realised this is what he is doing. So I needed to detach and step further away.

I shall certainly try my best. Pretty exhausted and feeling sickly today. Think I may bring my work home as today is draining me. I don't think I have the energy to get home and then him descend with his latest dose of spew. I'm pretty certain it will be the papers, he paid and started the process about 2/3 weeks and I still haven't seen anything. Wh seems to think that I don't need a L if we can agree on everything, but I still think I shall stick with having a L. Although I have legal knowledge and work in law- it's corporate, so a different ball game! I'd sooner have a D attorney look over things and for things to be sent to them. Although I'm feeling stronger, I don't think I want the added stress of dealing with it all by myself.

I think we can all agree that they don't feel what life will be like without us until they live it. So if that's the case, and he has filed, then he needs to leave.