SH, I wanted to let you know that I responded to your post on our parenting discussion in my thread.
And I'm glad to see you are accepting Phoebe's advice. I hadn't realized it until she said it, but she's right.
Me: 44 H: 44 Kids: 20, 16, 16, and 10 Together/Married: 22 years H announced he was emotionally detached and considering D: 4/4/16 H announced he is going to try to stay and reconnect: 5/1/16