Thanks Tyler... I have actually been down this path myself so I know the script pretty well myself. She started popping her head in Dec/Jan actually I resisted those pretty well. We have been seeing each other since mid June and just recently things have gone up to another level. It will probably be time for a real important talk soon.
You are right on her LL's. Her primary is definitely quality time (particularly quality conversation) and I think her secondary is act's of service. I think if you were to ask her she would say physical touch, but I just don't that is it. The other two are definitely not her. So yea, it is hard to work on those when you don't live together. At this point, those do not matter so much, they will become important later I think. Right now, we are on the verge of replaying a start of a relationship again, for about the 5th time in 20 years. The question I have to figure out is... is this what I want? Do I want to put in this effort?
Also, since this is the second physco she has been involved who both hate me and would like to see me 6 feet under, maybe this isn't worth it. She talks the talk now but in 2-3 years will we be right back here again? I don't know.. the chances of that are not zero though, that I do know. I keep picturing here trotting around with her new hair and skimpy clothes 15 months ago, she really was whacked. I think this weekend I am going to ask her what the deal was, we have to start getting into some stuff. She is finally admitting that other stuff was going on besides just issues with our marriage.
That's is a lot of rambles and a stream of random thoughts. Now let me go make sure my house is locked down for the night so I can try and sleep without felon coming to bother me.
