Tell me what to do!!!

[Zanadoo]

Also, I've had a lot of friends and family telling me to go ahead and just file for divorce myself and get it over with. They say just get it done and move on and that it will either motivate him to come back and if not I will have my answer. That just seems so wrong to me. I don't want to file because I feel like that is what he wants me to do. I want to save this. How do I approach this?