Hey Pinn, I did a quick catch up of what's happened recently with you.

Ok. So W and OM are over and she started poking her head out a bit? It's excitingly terrifying isn't it? I'm not sure what your W LL are, they way you talk about them being long term makes me think they are similar to my W which is quality time and acts of service. So it makes it tough to show her those when we are living apart.

I have a friend who is a bit over a year past his bday with his W and so far he has called every step of way with W. From the venom to the break up with OM once he found out they are moving in together to when she started popping her head up. His advice has been solid so far. The point is that it seems like Exs follow a script they haven't read. They just follow it.

So it's important to listen to people that have been down the path. Keep up your good work.

The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.