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Now you are free to love each other without feeling trapped!


Perhaps. But I think the idea of the divorce for her - was that she would be free to love other people without feeling trapped.


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Now the only thing that can and will hold you together is your love and your kids, and yes, believe me, she still loves you!
She probably will love you after the divorce more than she is loving you now!


How can you say this with such certainty?

I've also looked into 'MGTOW'. A lot of what it says about divorce for men seems absolutely true to me. I never would have given that type of philosophy much thought before I went through D - but it all makes sense now.


Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs
D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs
BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16