My WH literally said he would be devastated if we divorce because I am his only friend and he would be lonely. In an earlier time I would have vented back that he made that bed when he cheated. Now I am like, "Yeah, that would be tough, huh?" And that's it. It's sinking into my husband's skull that he effectively threw away his wife and kids when he chased after headcase of a train wreck. The reality that I may not be here when he comes to his senses is beginning to dawn on him, and he's in a cold panic.
Meanwhile I am just here with one eye brow raised and observing the floundering.
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
