I have to echo everyone else, in-house was torture. Once we physically separated was like a weight of my shoulders. Sure i cried for the first 2 - 3 weeks as reality of life without spouse set in but at the same time relief and a feeling of possibility sets in. You are free to pursue your life with your child the way you want it.

It'll be hard but exciting as well like knowing you are going to climb a mountain something switches on inside. There will ofcourse be obstacles and days that you feel like the world is ending for you but it will pass.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.