Last October bday. Find out potential affair shortly after by snooping. She stayed in house until Jan 16 when she moved to OM town.
After 5-6 months moved in with OM.
During the whole time she was very venomous and talks of D.
In late July or August there was a shift. Where she started being nicer yet still D talks. And there was one day we talked a lot and she said she missed that and asked R questions of me. Any niceness was quickly followed by total silence.
2 weeks ago she called crying asking me to come get the boys because she had been in another fight with OM and apparently on several occasions he was physically abusive and now I understand verbally abusive and controlling. The last straw was him picking up the boys from day care after drinking. The danger he put them in was her last straw she said.
So after that she asked to come visit the boys. She came Saturday. That night she said it was weird but thanks for allowing her to come. Sunday was muchos smoochos day. And I was told she had a resurfacing of feelings she thought dead as soon as she saw the boys and I playing and it escalated to her telling me Sunday night her shirt smelled like me and she liked it.
So that takes me to today. As of now she is not with OM yet still living at his house while she looks for her own place. She has been friendly and chatty with me when she talks to the boys on the phone as well.
So that leaves me being confused because from what I know she said she will never move back to this town and knows I cannot move away for awhile.
She also said she would never step foot here again and we are totally done too. Which hasn't totally remained true as she was here and "had feelings".
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
