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[Cherry]

Thanks coly. Yeah the first time I went through this, I used to think well at least he is still at home. But it's hard, them coming and going as they please. The constant mood swings, bouts of anger. And yeah I think for sure they feel this anger/depression/uncertainty and they see us and feel it must be our thoughts- so we get spewed at. Then there's the blowing hot and cold. Only last week he was telling me this is a mistake and he loves me, then back to not again.

And while you can keep going and pay no mind. It does become exhausting. And I think once they alone and need to do things by themselves and you're no longer there to put the blame onto, they have to look inside.

Meanwhile, he still has the ease of being at home and full cupboards, cooked food, bills paid, there child there. It's not exactly giving them the experience of what they say they desire.