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[Coly23]

I think your right Gump. I imagine that when my H is sitting on his own in his one bedroom flat feeling miserable he doesn't have me or our M to focus all the blame onto.

Going dark or doing LRT is also much easier with physical selection. Even though I still really miss him and would probably sell my soul to have him back I know that staying in constant contact with him just isn't going to bring him any closer to me or give him the chance to miss me. I've really embraced not initiating any contact but if he contacts me I am friendly but short on words. I don't know if this will work to help him to miss me but it is actually making me feel a little calmer...