Had a rather cringeworthy moment of a guy hitting on me today, telling me "how sexy" my body was (even with baby bump!) was an awkward moment where I didn't know wether or not to say that I'm married, I presume he knows- but may also have heard rumours. I thanked him for the compliment but said I didn't think it was appropriate!
I think its sexy too, i find pregnancy to be a beautiful thing and enhances the beauty of a woman. I cant be the only dude who thinks that way.
Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs 23Mar16-BD 9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss. 27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM. 14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation. 24May17-Divorced.
Natus, I hope their is more guys that think the same tbh. I'm trying to embrace my pregnancy figure, I'm rather petite normally, im only 5"4, but slim with narrow waist and wide hips, bum and chest (I guess typically hourglass) , but my hips seem to get even wider with pregnancy and because I'm so small normally, I'm now starting to feel big. I didn't particularly feel attractive last pregnancy, despite everyone telling me I look great and "I'm all bump", but this time round I guess I'm finding it a little harder as I don't have my h telling me how great I look. Instead I'm kinda feeling the rejection that he left me instead.
Still, I'm trying my best to embrace my bump and extra new curves. I always think that pregnant women look beautiful and so womanly (I just don't seem to have these thoughts about myself! ) I know this is another self esteem issue that I should conquer!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
I used to envy pregnant women and their shape. Then I had the same dissonant feelings you describe when I was pregnant. I didn't like looking in the full length mirror when I was in the bathroom, things just seemed...alien. But I look back on my pics and realize I looked freaking cute when I was pregnant. I am only 5'1 and weigh 115 pds at my top weight. (I only weigh about 108 now thanks to the stress of this last year) I really wish I had focused more on me during my pregnancy and bought myself a maternity massage or a mani/pedi. If I were there with you I would force you to go to weekly massages just to live vicariously through you, LOL!
M 10yrs T 13yrs BD #1Oct 2015-PA between WAH and COW BD #2 April 2016-WH resumed PA, she broke it off Jan 2 2017 WH says he wants divorce April '17-Letting go 2018 D busted DD8, DS6, DS3
Cherry....Attitude makes any woman beautiful. You have plenty of that sassy, strong, wonderful attitude. Curse the hormones for making you self conscious......
Pregnant Strong Wonderful mother Loving And the list goes on...
You are gorgeous of course and don't you forget that.
Keep on keep en on. You be doing great and I love the banter in your postings of late.
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
Loving the enthusiasm here for the pregnant female form, I shall own it and be proud! Sara, it amazes me out similarities! I'm a bit taller than you, but currently weighing 116. Lbs, my 24 inch waist has grown to 25 and hips at about 38 inch (eek). Still I'm female, I'm an hourglass so I'm embracing my curves! I'm planning a prenatal spa date with another pregnant friend, she is getting towards the end so will be a nice treat for us both!
Surfer, it wasn't quite. Almost took the romance away. Usually the water cooler or the photocopier where these romantic males of my workplace descend on me.. and who said chivalry is dead?!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
Having a rather sickly and tired evening. Was feeding S as wh got home. He decided to sit and eat with us. He didn't say a lot, but that's OK, I don't really feel like making small talk with him anymore. But I'm polite. When I put S in I bed, he asks me my work schedule for tomorrow, I tell him what I'm doing.. and then asked him why. He said he was thinking we could talk (my mil found the d papers the other day, so I've a feeling it's about that). I said okay, what about. He then snapped, I will tell you when we talk and storms out.
Another burst of anger, these bursts randomly come out. And I know its spew so I leave it and don't rise to it. I'm getting kind of done with his whole constant conversations, it's like every few days. And I get myself back together again and keep on and he delivers me with another one. These are the times that make an in house separation difficult, asvrather than hit you with something and leave you to it, it's kinda persistent, and as detached as you can be, the constant spew gets tiresome. Especially with hormones flying around. He told me he would be moved out, and I honestly don't know where he is up to with this, he doesn't seem to have viewed any more properties. Nor has he put any money into the account where our mortgage and bills come out of. So I've paid it all. But I'm not going to have him d me, and stay here saving for his exit. That's not right or fair.
So tonight I was feeling a little bla to start with, now I'm feeling moreso. I guess I would have been in bits panicking over what he has to say a few weeks ago. Now I'm not necessarily anxious, I just can't be bothered.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
