Originally Posted By: MrBond
If it's an MLC, it's her way of asserting her independence and rediscovering herself. As hard as it is to deal with, you have to remember that this is HER journey. That's why the LBS has no power or control. The WAS wants to feel in control.

Let go of that control and keep focus on you and what makes you happy.


I am just scared because I don't know what is coming now. I just find it odd that she would do this now. I could almost understand if she did this at the beginning when we weren't getting along but why now? My whole body is numb right now and I won't see her until Thursday night. She is supposed to call home tonight to talk to the kids. I have to act like nothing is wrong but how do I do that? The thing is she probably doesn't realize I know because I don't have Facebook but I heard from a mutual friend asking if everything was OK. Otherwise I wouldn't know anything. I wish I didn't know about this.


M39, W36
T12, M10
S6,S2
Discovered EA 8/8 that started 7/31