You're not detached enough. Even having her over, in my opinion, was out of line. Why? It puts YOU into the uncomfortable situation. Who cares about WW does? She put herself into this mess, and she needs to grow up and be a big girl, own the problems, and go to work on fixing them.
She just figured out she still has you on a string.
She is now free to move onto another OM, multiple OM, knowing you're the national guard, always in reserve, ready to deploy when princess loses a slipper.
Man, it's tough. If my EX-WW came onto me, it's 50/50 I might give in - but if I did, it's my own weakness. I'm not healed enough to realize I'm helping contribute to the waywardness.
Be a jewel that she must strive and work hard for. Tell her it was a mistake, apologize, and move on. Tell her you're moving on. And then DO IT.
M46, EXWW46 M15 T17 D20, S19, D13 M - Addiction since 1998 W EA/PA #1 2013/2014 W EA #2 June 2015... BD 1 Big D talk 9/15 BD 2 - EA/PA disc 10/30/15 Served D 1/22/16 Divorced 5/25/16 (yes, that fast!)
