sandi2 -- are you saying the abused family in your example had it coming to them, because they didn't or couldn't stand up to an abusive a$$hole?
Me: 46 W: 44 Married: 17 Together 21 D13; S10 BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you) Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)