I agree, but next time it might be better to be more forthright when you notice you're getting steamed. Like calm down and ask for a talk. Hard, I know. I'm thinking you were sort of expecting him to "read you" and understand why you were getting steamed... he's a guy. We get distracted. We need to be reminded. It doesn't mean anything other than we got distracted, that's all.
I hear you about the progress, tho. Same thing here... two weeks ago I talked it out with W and said, right out, that I could no longer live like this and if we could not solve these problems, I saw no choice but to end the M. So for the past 2 weeks... what? No real progress I can see. I think we have to stand our ground and re-state (calmly) that we need to see steady progress. Slow is okay, but standstill is not, procrastination is not, backsliding is NOT!!!
