Originally Posted By: maybs
I don't know if you two have tried making these lists yet... But I'm finding it difficult!

I think maybe I just have too much going on to focus on it properly...


Yeah....it isnt easy to objectively look at who you are and figure out how to improve yourself.

It's easy to say "Im going to go to the gym!" and while thats good, we typically dont get divorced because of being a little bit out of shape.

I'd recommend to take some time out to try to really focus as you go through the exercise. Its a life-shaping event!