WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Surfer]

Most divorces don't get busted. We all know that. There has been just too much damage or one party is too dysfunctional. Yes, by all means, let's cope, let's recover, let's improve ourselves ... but we're not busting anything.

I agree, with the exception that you may not DB to get her back, but you can DB to get you back.

Ive transititioned from DBing to win her back to working on me irregardless if we get back together or not.

- thanks Natus.

You may also get a better relationship with your W - or the person that she has become. See Job's post (above). Thanks Job.

Most of all - keep your chin up Chap! We all get dragged down by this at times. It's easy to have short or longer terms wobbles.But perhaps the key is to focus on you - I know you know this and so do I; but sometimes we forget. I did for a day or so.

Keep it up for you (and S8 & D13)!!

Surfer.