Originally Posted By: Surfer
She is not coming back. She has chosen her path. I am done.
I need to be separate from her. She is damaging.


We are at the same place.

Sadly.

Most divorces don't get busted. We all know that. There has been just too much damage or one party is too dysfunctional. Yes, by all means, let's cope, let's recover, let's improve ourselves ... but we're not busting anything.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final