CT-- it's a good choice for me I suppose, but a bad choice (direction) for my kids.

PsySara-- thanks for your thoughts & reminders. I'm guessing you're a psychiatrist, and are familiar w/ BPD. I think if my W did not have something as serious as BPD, I may not have done what I'd done. I just felt w/ BPD ... it just did not seem like anything would get better unless BPD was addressed. I'd appreciate your thoughts on this.

I'm going to look for a BPD specific forum.


Me: 50, MLC/WW 45
Young kids
Nov 2015: BD1
Apr 2016: BD2
Jan 2017: W filed
Feb 2017: D final