Originally Posted By: darknes
Originally Posted By: Natus
Originally Posted By: TxHubby
Just relax and do whatever comes natural and feels right.


Nothing else i can do, everything feels so complicated though. I just worry is it real or is it because i dont want to be alone.


Hmmmmm....I have a hard time following this advice. Im not sure doing what "feels right" is the right path to follow.

Instead, Id recommend doing what gets you closer to your goals.


Probably goes hand in hand. As you focus on achieving your goals you feel more at home with yourself and by default be more relaxed and in tune to whats right for you.

But yes i think i will focus on my goals first which is strengthen myself to survive the D, stabilise and enhance my finances and get my freaking bike (grrrr). Thanks for reminding me of this.


Me31 W31 M11yrs S6yrs
23Mar16-BD
9Apr16-W admitted EA w boss.
27Jun16-W Changed job and promised NC w OM.
14Jul16-Continued contact w OM.Start of Separation.
24May17-Divorced.