You don't split the balance if it's things she bought for herself after she fired you as her wife. It's that simple.
And if I ever read that you've said "I asked if I could join" one more time I'm going to scream so loud you'll hear me.
QUIT BEING A DOORMAT!!!!!!!!!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat