Well unfortunately she is not willing to compromise on anything and feels she has every right to do whatever she wants so I am not sure co parenting agreement will work.
So it will be like dropping the kids off at the moon 2 days a week and on the sun the other 5 days a week? Thats ludicrous. I get that things wont be identical, but in general, you should have similar concepts in order to do what is BEST FOR THE CHILDREN.
It isnt about you vs. her. It's about THEM.
I would ask your lawyer to draft something. Im guessing they have a standard agreement - I know the one that I used did.
I agree that it's ridiculous for your W to be introducing kids to random guys as "mommy's friend" at that age.
I will say that the agreements are very hard to ENFORCE, but at least you have it out there in writing and you can document the actions against it.
