Wow, you did get whacked. But in such a good, helpful, turn-around-and-get back-on-track way. I'm glad you're finding it useful.
A birthday celebration-- that's very sweet. And holdingon is right. Give her what she's asking you for-- esp. when it is also what you want!! I do know what you mean about the passiveness, though. Because it doesn't feel like a seductive hint when they're doing that--it feels like something else entirely-- but at the base of it, they want to feel loved and don't want to risk rejection. So give the love--what do you have to lose by doing that?
Quote: Your goal is to bring you and CAW closer together. In order to achieve that goal, you’ve tried so hard to analyze what’s wrong with her that your perception of her is worse than her perception of you.
Yikes, KAW. This one is like looking in a mirror... think I have something to think about as well...
