As much as it [censored]....DB101 - Change how you look at things.
Instead of FOCUSING on OM....
FOCUS on the fact that YOUR son Trust YOU enough to being up the conversation.
You are in a very tough spot. Be very careful with what and how you communicate with your son about OM. KEEP..let me repeat KEEP YOUR hurt out of the oonversation. I am not suggesting that you tell your son that OM is a wonderful human being. I am saying that do not tell YOUR son that OM is piece of chit.
Breath brother....breath.
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans