Originally Posted By: hawker
You don't really know what they are thinking so forget the mind reading.


Agree w/ this. They are so mixed up it's impossible to tell what's going on in their brains. You seem to be getting mixed messages from your W, probably best to approach it from the "believe nothing of what they say" viewpoint.

Originally Posted By: cheesyt
we asked why I was so distant and "cold" when I still want to save our M. cant remember her exact words but along the lines of -you say you want us to be together but you sure don't act like you even want me.


This is a perfect example of why it's best to discount what they're saying. This would tend to contradict her conversation w/ you the other day about OW, etc. Just jot it down and move on, let them be wishy-washy on their own time. smile

Hope your weekend was great cheesyt! You a big football fan? I'm more of an NFL guy myself, but I've got my college team that I adamantly pull for as well.


Me39
M11 : T13
D9
BD 5/31/16
In House S until 6/21/17
Divorced 10/5/18