So this weekend he was all moody and distant. This morning I asked him what was up, and he said that he's not in a good place, doesn't know if he wants to return to counseling, and doesn't feel like he belongs in our life.

Of course we had to get the kids to school and go to work, so now we won't have an opportunity to talk until later this evening, probably 7 or 8PM at the earliest. I'm going out of town for work Tuesday - Friday. We have tickets to a show together Friday night, which he says he's looking forward to seeing with me.

So . . . just trying not to freak out and assume the worst. I'm not sure what to say, if anything, at our talk tonight. I guess I'll just listen to what he has to say, affirm his feelings, and not really push anything. Any other advice?


H39, W39
T18, M16
S9, S7
EA suspected 11/15
ILYBINILWY 1/16
Counseling 1/16 - 6/16
EA confirmed 1/16, ended 1/16
H signed lease to move out 8/18/16 (day before our anniversary)