Originally Posted By: pinn
I was more wondering what people thought about the situation in general. It is hard to want to get back together at the moment


pinn,

My thoughts are that, of course, your WW came back to you after the OM proved less than desirable, but what if he hadn't been abusive? I guess that's what's nagging me, particularly when you read what LiM has gone through with his wife.

I'm not saying that I don't think it's possible to reconcile, I think it is possible, but in my opinion your WW would have to be ready to do a lot of work to come back you. I'd hate for you to be Plan B yet again.