I think she definitely wants you to comfort her. From my opinion (and watching how other ww women in real life handle these things), there's something slightly manipulative about the whole, "if you don't want to talk anymore, we don't have to." It kind of then places any future action on you and let's her off the hook.
Was this text or face to face or phone?
Me- 30's H- 40's T-10 M-5 I moved out b/c he wanted space- June 15 D filed by H: September 16