1. So Mr. Bond Has called me out for not reading the material. I need to get on that.
2. Wife appears to be working on divorce. Originally she said she would wait to 2017. But I broke rule #6, Don't discuss private matters with friends. For those not following my post. I meet with one of my wife's coworkers and told her what i knew about the affair. In turn, she outed the affair at work. Wife as since moved up divorce time table up to ASAP.
3. Wife has been asking me to move out. I told her i will stay in family home to divorce is settled. At my attorneys initial consultation he advised not to move out. Now I need to hold my ground.
4. A friend of my wife from out of state called me the other day. The friend stated she has be unable to get ahold of my wife. When the friend calls my wifes number it says number no longer in service. Maybe my wife blocked her number. The friend considers my wife her best friend. I followed the rules this time and didn;t tell the friend any details.
5. My wife is lining up child care for post divorce. I currently watch my daughter 4 nights a week. It sounds like my wife wants 100 percent custody and hired help will watch my daughter at night. My wife has insinuated that i'm not a good father. Interestingly she had no problem with me watching our daughter at nights for the last 2.5 years. I will let my lawyer handle this one if my wife ever gets around to filing papers.
6. I try to avoid contact with my wife but we cross paths sometime. Lots of anger to me. I guess thats a trait of WW's. I've read boundaries post but have a hard time implementing them. I dont think fast on my feet and not the best verbal communicator.
