Quote: KAW, what have you done differently just lately to make CAW sit up and notice?
Thanks LnL for checking in ... and triggered another quandry I've dealing with in the last couple of weeks ... sometime tho when it comes to posting here the space between the ears just becomes a void ...
Lately ... say the last month or so, I've noticed that CAW is seems to be getting more needy overall and whenever I seem to pull back in doing something different it has an adverse effect and I wonder if that is what she means by us drifting apart now.
Quite frankly, I'm not sure how to address this ... I mean DBing teaches that us that being needy is not healthy, so how does one address a needy passive-aggressive WAW in a way that doesn't drive her away? The only thing I can think of at this point to make CAW sit up and take notice is to hold back on the amount of attention I give her, but whenever I done that its just seems to drive her more to wanting to be wiht OM. I'm really at a loss as to else to try at this point. Open to suggestions...
