Still over here. Still DB-ing (I think). Still focused on me.

Work is still stressful..so much to do, so little time!

There's a lot of stuff coming up in the next few weeks.
Today is W's birthday - which I do not plan to acknowledge
Thursday - mediation
next week my nieces birthday party (which we are both invited to) I plan to attend but not sure if W will be there or not.
And then a couple days after that my bday.
The day after that our first court date
A couple weeks after that our last court date at which point I assume D will be finalized? Not sure how that works really.
So all that takes place in the next 30 days...

Like I said haven't really talked to her much in the last couple of weeks. She had been contacting me nearly everyday and then she just kind of stopped, which I'm fine with.

Our most recent convo was Friday. She texted me to ask if it was okay for her to stop by the house and drop something off for me (which I thought was her FINALLY respecting my boundary of not entering my home without giving me warning). I said "sure, I won't be home" since the time she choose is when she knows I'm still at work. To which she responded again with "is that okay? Or would you prefer for me to stop by when you are home." I just said up to you. As this particular time I did not care if I was home or not since she was just dropping something off. She texted me again and said she would have to wait because she didn't have her house keys with her. Which I didn't respond to because I felt that made the entire convo pointless...She knew I would still be at work at that time and was planning on stopping by so what was her original plan of getting into the house if she didn't have keys??? It was stupid. Whatever.

Had a nice relaxing weekend again. Back at it today with trying to catch up on work between my many meetings.


W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
EA: 06/16?
PA: 07/16
Moved in w/ ow: 07/16
D final: 10/16