WW Starting to talk again. Not sure if I want her.

[Surfer]

Sorry. I've had enough. I will still use principles and practices to protect me and the kids. But I don't want her or this anymore. Mediation will now happen. I am not spending the rest of my life trying to reconcile with such a vile person. Why would I want to?

No too much has happened. Yesterday just showed me, again, just exactly how manipulative she is.

I need to stop trying to change the course she has chosen. I need to totally let this happen and let her feel the struggle of hard life with zero support, hard times financially, no time to do what she wants - when she wants. She can feel like a mum that is running around trying to fit in kids, ironing, cleaning, chores, school, clubs, making ends meet with no emotional support only financial and emotional support for the kids. I will pay my way and will give her a large enough settlement. But I am done.

She is not coming back. She has chosen her path. I am done.

I don't think I could even believe her if she spent 6 months to a year or more of showing she get her failings and working on them.

I need to be separate from her. She is damaging.

Surfer.