how would that be a lie? There's nothing serious going on, is there?
It leaves it vague as to what you mean by 'serious' and 'right now'. Does that mean you ended the conversation and aren't pursuing it? Or does that mean you're just friends with benefits but aren't exclusive? Hard to say. But it is brief, true, and acts like you're saying there's nothing going on without giving her reassurances.
OK, z out, others can chime in as well and it's ultimately yours to run.
As for being a 'stander', DB isn't always intuitive. Reassuring an addict they won't have consequences for continuing to use their drug of choice isn't noble, it's enabling. OK, keep posting and hang in.
Last edited by Cadet; 09/20/1607:08 AM. Reason: combine posts
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
