Not a vet, but you're dark, right? I'd ignore that loaded puppy. It's ridiculous to pull something from the past and try to pin it on you to allay her guilt. It's a classic deflection strategy. Don't even deign to address it. It's beneath you.
Sounds like dark-desperation.
me 42 H 32 T 7yr M 6yr BD 5/2016 ILYBNILWY Separated 7/2016